Lunar muses, Episode 3: Confidence
I really took a long break from writing. I thought this break would be over after a week or 2. Let's look at the positive side, I am back.
In this episode of "Confidence" I would like to share instances, stories, quotes, ideas, poems, inspirations, anecdotes, and whatnot. Just take this is a passing comment, Everything I share here is supposed to take it grain of salt, Because I am going to Ionise all of your cells to an extent, Mitochondria be like: what thing are you on to overwork us like this.
haha, I thought It was good. There is a difference between would like to and doing it, but we will not talk about that and directly Initiate the conversation about "Confidence".
'Definition': According to Anil Singh Bisht, Confidence is the key to every door you want to unlock, Sometimes it may not work as you might miss some crucial components but the majority of the time, It is the best key to unlock any door with. Door-here could represent anything, It could be an opportunity, or a meeting, or an event or just hanging out in a party. When he said anything, It means anything.
'Examples': Anil knew nothing about NCC, but when the opportunity came to him, He just yelled yes " like the Amit Jain - ha hu". Now let's give you a round about NCC. NCC stands for National Cadet Corps, try to remember it because this segment won't happen again. In short, NCC teaches things like discipline, brotherhood, arms and tactical knowledge, basically creating soldiers or officers out of us students in case of any emergency in future. I might have been technically unfit, but I was brimmed with confidence and always showed up and well that's a story for another time.
Now how does this explain our term "Confidence". If before joining NCC Anil knew what NCC stands for or what happens in it, Things might have changed. He would still have been interested in it but He would not be going all out for it. Because of all the misconceptions, He would have by hearing things happening in NCC or what they require out of cadet.
| Now that i am mentioning this, I think i need this confidence back in life, i had missed so many opportunities just because i thought it was too much and i wouldn't be selected but my own example showed me it is possible. Also, don't get confused, writing is therapy for me, so you are in for a free pov inside my life. |
Unfortunately, I don't have more examples to show here, It's not that I did not pull off anything else with confidence, but quite the opposite my life is mostly built around confidence, but I don't want to put you through my therapy again.
Let's share Ideas.
1. Confidence can arise from Ignorance and an abundance of awareness and knowledge.
2. Fake confidence is real as much as real confidence. Who can even declare what's fake and what's real?
3. Overconfidence comes when you don't measure yourself, There should be an overflow meter for that.
4. Building confidence takes time and effort but it can be hacked too.
5. Lacking confidence is not detrimental until you have support, but whenever that support gets removed, You are in big trouble. "That's what life said"
There are many people, poems, and materials to get the motivation to build your confidence. Yet, many suffer from a lack of it. Even I.
The best part about developing is: that you need to be in coherence with your whole body. So the more you can remember, the more you can be useful to your own growth. This is like a circuit, your growth is a flow that is running in a circuit, and you need to pass through every corner of your body to receive growth.
This is already too much content.
I am signing off, if you need me to talk more, show me!
Adios
brianil.
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