Chapter 29: Safe words

 What is a safe word?

any word which can be used to suggest or signify that its touching the threshold of your limitation and you want whatever happening to be stopped or diverted or leave. 

i mean this is what i derive from it. It can exist anywhere, be it work place or gym or school, anywhere in starting from 2 people. can A single person can a safe word for themselves?

that is a topic we can anytime look into so why not today!

What should be a safe word usecase for a single person.

1. It could be used as a reminder to remember that you are not alone.

2. It be a signal in sight if you feel restless and you can then follow the instruction which are together with it.

3. It could be anger damper. for example- repeating something you love to eat could easily blow your anger away. 

there could be many use cases!

so today i will create a some safe words for us, me and you(reader) in case if we have a conversation in future. 

 DHOKLA is something i love, if in my life i ever felt i can live eating with this, i believe would be one of the best contender out there.

I am still not privileged enough to come across the situations where i am directed to use safe words, nor i have people who shares this word with me, but still for fun, If we meet outside and you feel hungry at any time of our meeting and cool with anything because your hunger is dire but you are embarrassed to talk about this for any reason, Use DHOKLA as the word and add my name after that so suppose if my name was naman, you could just use "dhokla naman" in any part of the conversation and i will get it, or i will use this word when i felt that emotion. 

Also how will i know that you have knowledge about the safe words we can add a ice breaker whenever you learnt a new safe word or wanna introduce new word . That could be decided on the spot, i am not gonna go and create a virtual scenario. 

CHESS is important part of my life. so if you ever feel like you need to confront or discuss some serious stuff, Spell chess anywhere in conversation and my name after that or elo ratings and i get into serious mode and vice versa.

DRINGHIL is a made up word there is such significance in it, but if the place is we are in is crowded you can come up to me and use this word and i will leave the group and have a talk with you... or i will ask you to text me as i will have your attention. 

I mean i could have gone anywhere with these safe words but as i am not that position yet so these are just random musings of mine, but if you are in a professional space you should have someone who you ca share safe words with.

peace out

Dringhil

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